About parenting in 2020, writing, mental health, experiences of the pandemic, turning 40, masculinity, Menkind, and his new novel ‘Contacts’.

About growing up, auditioning, acting, leadership, living in the present, creativity, age, social media, Harriet, The Fresh Prince Reunion, vulnerability, and Will Smith’s charisma.

About finding purpose, visibility, modelling, money, listening, films, guilt, allyship, honesty, accountability, gender, sexuality, the media, and the next now.

About being a black woman in the public eye, reflection, safety, helping people, process, the political, and the personal.

About stand-up, coming out to her mum, sexuality, mistakes in cat care, control, vulnerability, trauma, losing people, and being a knight of queerness.

About comedy, mental health, obsessive-compulsive disorder, boundaries, being Irish in the UK, and ending a relationship during a pandemic.

About body liberation, body image and mental health coaching, not being okay, Mormonism, the Internet, and The Chateaux Diaries.

About Burnt Roti, Oh Queer Cupid, speed dating, sleep paralysis, talking about herself, coming out, being open, being a queer South Asian woman, and Bram Stoker’s Dracula.

About Dreamgirls, the music industry, Stacy Abrams, competition, being alone, making your own space, and her upcoming album, Tomorrow.

About processing trauma, fighting with her therapist, being present, empathy, healing, Meg-John Barker’s concept of Plural Selves, monsters at the end of books, and drawing bums.

About body liberation, navigating the internet, politics, information, fear, the privilege of not paying attention, going through the foster system, being fat, queer and nonbinary, agoraphobia in the time of COVID-19, and the youth on TikTok.

About writing, talking about gender on their terms, advocating for social change, In Their Shoes, TED X London, approaches to relationships, vulnerability, and getting angry at Love Island.

About criminal psychology, Bad People, memory, reasonable doubt, certainty, nuance, bisexuality, evil, consciousness, science communication, and flirting.

About writing fiction, screenplays and memoir, being a primary school teacher, emotional literacy, listening, learning, social media, “balance”, fan fiction, horror, the power of saying you’re wrong and her YA novels Meat Market, Clean and Wonderland.

About Bake Off, writing, accountability culture, theatre, navigating the public eye, politics, sexuality, mental health, drag, reality TV, and kindness.

About advocacy, identity, the media, perfection, being an “internet troll”, being seen as the face of body positivity, celebrity, iWeigh, EMDR therapy, cancelling, boundaries, Twitter, privilege, and fucking up.

About escaping her child marriage, her sister’s “honour killing” murder, gender inequality, activism, patriarchy, therapy, justice, working with IKWRO, and doing the things she wasn’t allowed to do as a child.

About having a muslim fanbase, Islam, eggs on balconies, comedy and religion, the London terror attack, comedy, tray charges, privileges, Scottish Curry award shows, career and the beauty of Islam.

About the US election, the fascination with nostalgia, cool mothers, racism, feminism, masculinity, teachers, capitalism, voting, basically, anything worth discussing.

About assertiveness, sex work, the forgotten Blue-song, more sex work, cuddling, friendship and mothers. 

About wanting to be a movie star, struggles with femininity, going to comedy shows alone, being a weirdo, Thatcher, homophobia, cool women in comedy, being sexy, doing a tv-show together and the topic of school which turns into a much more serious conversation, which will carry on in part two. 

About small villages in horror films, books, beauty and the beast, the war between dorks and geeks, conspiracy theories, nerdy experts and how we love them, antisemitism, squealing after Louis Theroux, about thinking Australia is China and more.

About revenge, christianity, psychopaths and grandfathers, hypervigilance and about leaving parties without saying goodbye.